Happy 1 Year Anniversary, Victoria Faye! Here's some random thoughts on our first year together.
The adoption process is kind of like a marriage ceremony. It's exciting, fun, and okay, it can make you a nervous wreck, too. Then comes the marriage or real-life. Living with a new little person requires adjustments and learning on every one's part. I think her parents have had to grow and change just as much as Vika has. And that's a good thing.
First morning waking up to a new life.
What can I say? She is amazing. In the past year she has learned to eat and chew normal food, hold her own in a house with 3 other rowdy kids and a dog. She can now communicate some of her basic needs through sign language and oh yeah, learned to understand the English language.
Having her has shown me what compassionate kids we have. All 3 have welcomed her,love her, are proud of her, and sometimes fight to play with her. I gotta admit, that warms my heart and I think it's extremely good for them.
Millie still thinks she's Vika's mother/teacher/caregiver. Honestly, I don't know if I'll ever break her of this. Fortunately, V. has learned to tolerate Millie's fussing over her pretty well. Many times I go up to their room to see what they're doing and find Millie holding a learning session with V. her captive audience. Most times of the day, you can find them together.
Vika has really blossomed, particularly these last few months. Attachment issues? Not this girl. Sensory issues? Nope. Institutional autism? Uh-uh. As Gabe and I like to say, 'we got a good one.' She does have a good amount of spunk and naughtiness thrown in for good measure, as it should be.
This little girl has brought so much
fun, laughter, and opportunities for growth into our lives. She is possibly the world's best cuddler. She has turned into such a happy, smiley, loveable child. Sometimes I wonder how we got along without her. I marvel at our Lord's graciousness in meeting our needs along the way. So many times, I thought "What are we doing?! Should we really be doing this?!" We are about the most flawed people you could find, and yet, He blesses us with such a darling of a child. Praises, that's all I can say.
We love you, Viccola.